I gave him a final warning... he must have thought I was joking.

 my husband has always been slightly an ass hole but the last two months... he has been the biggest asshole I've ever seen. He's constantly putting me down, he makes really hurtful comments, he acts like he's so much better than me because he has his degree when in reality he won't let me finish mine. He tells me "you wanted the baby, you can't go to school and work and have a baby and you were the one who wanted the baby." I know he won't let me finish my degree because he sees that in a year I will be making more than him and he can't have that. But he controls the money. His faviorte line is "I make more money so I should get to spend more money." He's constantly got an attitude and is always hanging up on me. He NEVER checks in on his daughter while he's traveling for work. I feel like a single mother with married woman commitments. I'm tired of washing his laundry and he bitches that it wasn't done right! I'm tired of making him breakfast and dinner (his work pays for lunch everyday) and it's never made tonhis standards. I'm tired of him pushing me to my breaking point then saying how sorry he is. He's just SOOOOOO stressed out and he knows he needs to go get help. But it's all just hot air. I just told him TWO DAYS AGO that I was done. Things needed to change or inwas leaving. He can have our house and everything in it, our cars, all of our shared assists I just want my daughter. And that I'd rather start all over than deal with him. I don't know if I'm just crazy but I have a feeling in my gut that he might not necessarily be sleeping with other women but that he's talking to other women. I've had that feeling for a long time I just don't have any hard proof to confront him with. Tonight he calls me to tell me he's on his way home. He immediately gets an attitude and asks me what I've been doing all day. Taking care of our three weeks old who has had explosive diarrhea all day! Then gets pissed when I haven't got to washing his pants yet (mind you he has 4 other pair that look exactly like the ones he wants hangining in the closet) then when I say fine I'll go wash them I'll see you when you get home he responded with whatever and hangs up on me.... seriously... we were sitting on a dead line! No one was saying anything why can't I get off the phone?! I'm just so done! My mom is off work Friday and I'm having her come get me and the baby (being he drive what is technically my car and says his truck is "broke" yet drives it all weekend). I'm so fed up. I've been dealing with this shit for four years and he's getting worse. I know what people will say, well if he's always been kind of an ass why did you marry him? Good point, he caught me in high school at a VERY emotionally vonurable time. My best friend died unexpectedly, my dad who had always raised me dumped me at my moms so he could start a new life, I had to transfer schools in the middle of my senior year... he acted like he cared and he felt safe... unfortunately I'm one of those girls who got into an emotionally abuseive relationship and believed him everytime he said he'd change because I was scared to be left again. Sorry for the long post I'm just really upset.