Shower advice

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Hi everyone. My 3 years old toddler refuses to take shower. She is screaming like someone is killing her. Her dady saying its ok if she doesnt want to take a shower just leave her. But i cant do that. She can go without shower even 10 days. Today i was trying to hold her in my hug and wash her in shower but she is fighting we was about to fall. I cant continue like this. Plz tell me What should i do? Plz give me advice