can't make him cum??

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I'm 1 month far in my first relationship. Things are going very naturally because we were friends for a year. Everything's great except for one thing: I can't make him cum. We haven't had sex yet but I gave him head and he just couldn't cum. The first two times, he was tipsy but the next time he was sober... I don't know what it is, he always gets hard when he sees me and the previous 2 guys, both experienced, I've given head said they absolutely loved it... what should I do? I don't know How to talk about it without insulting him. He's a virgin as well, if that changes anything.

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This was the same with my bf and I. It really stressed me out in the beginning, which then stressed him out. After *many* conversations, we finally realized that it's not about the end result. Sex should be fun & enjoyable, making each other cum is just an added bonus.

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some guys just don't cum from blow jobs. it's okay, it's most likely not you.

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My boyfriend and I knew each other for 5 years before we started dating and had sex. He was a virgin and I couldn't make him cum no matter what I tried. But I talked to him and we found out it was just cause he wasn't letting go and being comfortable with me. Since he's inexperienced he was too busy worrying about what I was thinking. Make sure he feels comfortable and knows you aren't going to judge him or think anything bad about it. He's probably just nervous since it's a new relationship! Don't take it personal! :)

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It sounds like he just needs to relax. I would definitely talk to him even if it's a touchy subject! Just reassure him and let him know you want to make sure he's comfortable with everything and that it's okay. And if it's not to make sure you guys communicate that to each other and come to a mutual agreement on how to handle the situation! :) good luck!!

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Some people just have a more difficult time cumming.  If he enjoys what you do then don't  worry so much.  Orgasm isn't the goal in sex, pleasure is and you are giving him that.  It will get easier as you get to know each other, but it might always be a bit longer or more difficult for him.  My fiancee is like that, but I love it because we can have sex for as long as we want. Sometimes he wants to cum so I give him a handjob plus oral, and sometimes he wants to save it for later so we can have sex again in a little while.

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well as you give him a bj also masturbate him

can't make him cum??

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