Opinion: Is it a woman's responsibility to have sex while pregnant?

My S/O and I are expecting our first in June, and I'm 13 weeks pregnant. We have sex at least 3-4 times a week. Before I was pregnant, we'd do it every single night, and in the morning when we woke up (although that always annoyed me). It was 1 am and we had our blood tests the next day, I was asleep while my S/O watched a show. I had to fast for the test obviously, and had to get it done at 6:30 am, so I already knew this was a recipe for disaster as I get RIDICULOUSLY hungry and nauseous in general when I wake up, much less before 10:30. So I'd been asleep for a while,  not wanting to add lack of sleep into the mix while I was getting blood drawn. My S/O turned off his show and decided to start basically thrusting at me. I woke up and told him to stop because it was really late and we had to be up early. He got super mad and threw a hissy fit. When I pointed out that he was literally having a hissy fit because I didn't want to have sex, he said it was because I'm not "passionate" enough and he doesn't feel like he's in a real relationship and we don't have enough sex, but it's not about sex. I was disgusted. The conversation could've been left for the morning but he rambled on about it for hours. I also hadn't wanted to have sex because last time we had, it has really hurt and while I dealt with the pain afterwards , he just drifted off to sleep all comfortably. And he knew it had hurt me as well, so I'm not sure why it surprised him I didn't want to do it again, much less at a time where we needed to be up.