cranky

Frustrated. It's constantly a competition between my boyfriend's brother's girlfriend and me when it comes to my boyfriend's family. I am always busy and so is my boyfriend, so I rarely go over to his house and spend time with his family and my boyfriend's brother's girlfriend literally like feeds off of it. Not only does she find joy in my absence for most of their family events, but literally every time she is at his house she is spamming my phone with Snapchats of her with my boyfriend's dogs while I am at work, it's pathetic, yet it bothers me. I am starting to notice that her boyfriend invites her to more family events than my boyfriend invites me. However, we are both a lot busier, but I can't help feeling left out? I'm not sure what I should do. I know it's not my boyfriend's fault, but I do wish he would invite me over more often. I feel like we are always hanging at my house but how am I ever supposed to get close to his family like his brother's girlfriend is when he never brings me around. Like yes we are busy but on weekends when we are not he does not invite me over. Do you guys think it is his parents that don't like me? Ugh I'm just worked up because they asked her to dogsit their dogs this weekend when they are out of town over me, or at least they could have shot us a text in a group message saying like "hey girls can you dogsit together" like do they not think I exist or? Ugh this is just a ramble but any advice would be awesome.