Venting!

I'm due Xmas day, and now that it's this week I realized I had accept the fact that my babe may come Xmas or Xmas eve. I'm totally okay with it. However my mother is watching my 2 year old if it should happen. My sister bought a new house and is hosting them for Xmas eve 50 minutes away. I told my mom that I'm already concerned with my health and the babies health and want my boy to be stationary and not driving 50 mins to and fro. I haven't been to my sisters house yet , I already barely trust my mother to sit, my mom is an awful driver, and car crash fatalities increase on Xmas and Xmas eve. Not to mention my mom has only taken him out once in his 2 1/2 yrs of life and that's the only time someone besides my husband and I have driven him, and I haven't ever slept away from him. It's a lot! She basically told me that she has to go to my sisters because it would be rude. I can make other arrangements but it's just so disappointing! This is why I hate asking them for anything. I just want to labor alone and have my husband  stay with my 2year old. I wish I felt confident enough to do it on my own!