Molestation

I know this is a VERY touchy question, and topic. I was molested as a young girl. I just wanna know if there's other people like me, that wish they would've told, but didn't. It was a family friend. I find that sometimes being sexual with my long time bf is hard. & also find "sneak attacks" or forceful sex difficult. Sometimes I cry about it, my bf is very understanding. It's been about 15-16 years since this happened. I was molested with a cousin. Sometimes seeing her is very hard because it brings back horrible memories of the man who once took our innocence.