In law ramblings

My MIL hates me ... I took her son away and now everything that happens is all my fault and everything I say is offensive to her. I feel so bad for my husband because he wants us to get along but she makes me hate myself.

My FIL lives a 24hr drive away (thank god) with his wife, whom I actually like. He also doesn't like me much. He's called me a gold digger. I had a job (sahm now) and we were pooling our money in one account. My husband spends all of our money, I never shop or anything. My husband is not rich, we have to budget for me to stay home. We haven't told him I won't be returning to work either, he's going to flip out ... Work is everything to him, all that matters is money. He also says I'm not cheerful enough and I don't smile enough, I'm ungrateful.

I just want to cry. I can't do anything right. My husband shouldn't have to deal with this. I really dislike holidays now!