just a few questions. help please

Kimberly • Like laughs 😂 works hard, loves her family
Can someone run down the lingo for me? 
I don't use an ovulation test is that bad? I kinda went by the calendar.
 
Has anyone conceived that way?
Is there a chance of still bing pregnant even even if my breat stop being sore? They still are 2 days after ovulation, but I'm scared it will. 
Are you ovulating when your cervix is soft? 
Any ways just wondering.