My boyfreinds fetish is affecting out sex life..

So my boyfrwind has a clothing fetish (i wont disclose) and ive tried it out for him and im fine obviously. But he doesnt want ti go all the way, i blew him he diesnt like it, i tried givug him a hand job and same thing. He says the o ly way he could come is if he jerked off while i told him stories of me wearing said clothing. Obviously i couldnt di a good job and i just quit, now im supwr upset. I dont know how to please him or go along with this fetish that well. I feel suoer insecure as if im just not enough ti please him. Can someone give me some advice about the situation?.