Nonhormonal bc

The copper iud fell out but I would still like to use a non hormonal method. I would like to use condoms and am possibly looking into barrier methods like the sponge and diaphragm. The copper iud would have been great for me except my cervical opening is smaller than most women and my dr said that occurs in 20% of women. Hormonal bc effects my mood. Advice? I've tried mini pills and the shot. Not interested in the arm implant and can't do methods with estrogen. I got hit with the unlucky stick :(