Should I borrow him money?

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My boyfriend wants me to borrow him 100$ because that is the amount he needs to buy a motorcycle (he has the rest of the money, it is just missing 100$). I would give it to him if it wasnt my only money for next 15 days. He said he will pay me back in 5 days when his paycheck comes. Im so torn. I want to give it to him because he really wants that motorcycle and the current owner will only sell it on specific date that will be a few days before my boyfriend gets his paycheck. So there is no way he can get the missing 100$ by then by himself. 
I really dont want him to feel like I dont want to help him financially. Should I give him the money and somehow manage for next few days without it? What would you gals do? I know it is a stupid advice to ask but I need some non-biased opinions.

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I'd lend him some of it and help him find the rest.

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I am not sure what borrowed him means. Do you mean lend him? Or will you borrow money from someone else to give to him?

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"Borrow him" isn't even proper english😐

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He cant wait 5 days???

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Is he trustworthy? Has he shown you in the past that he's responsible? How long have you been dating? You are under no obligations to lend him money. If you aren't comfortable with it, don't. Seeing as this is your only money for the next few days I wouldn't. He has other people he can borrow from. What about his parents, siblings, friends, etc? Why is he asking for it from you, especially if he knows that you need it? That's not very considerate.

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It's only 100 bucks. I'm sure he can bargain that with the seller. I wouldn't trust that. I wouldn't give money.

My bf, now ex borrowed 100 bucks from me once. I was stupid enough to give it to him. Few years later, I realized he went to Vegas with another girl. That's what he used my money for. I am not saying yours will do this to you. But I wouldn't lend.

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Well.. he's your bf not your husband. And many women now are giving the bf the same benefits as a wife would give a husband. But besides that I also think he's not a wise person. If you can't afford to buy a motorcycle why even buy it. If I really needed it that much I'd sell something to make 100 dollars to buy the motorcycle. If I don't have it then I won't buy it. If my bf acted like that I would not want a future with him because I can't imagine what deals he'd make in the future.Look out for your self. If you need the money use it for yourself and if you don't and you trust him then if you'd like to then go ahead. But my advice is to be careful. :o

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You can donate plasma if you're over 18. They give you $50 the first few times. So if you want to lend him the money, go for it but there is ways to earn money if you need to hun

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If you lend him the money make sure it's in writing he will pay you back.

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I would lend him it but make sure u get it back when he says u will get it back because... I'm not saying he's like this.... from experience I have learned Give someone an inch n they take a mile especially where money is concerned if I lend money now I rarely get it back from people so I've stopped lending money now because people took the piss n took kindness as a weakness n seemed to take the fact I have money for granted. :) xxx

Should I borrow him money?

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