How can I save this friendship whilst ttc!

My best friend has been ttc for years, suffering a miscarriage and its been really rough on her.

Recently me and my husband have started ttc? I told her in September we were going to start trying in January. But for the last 3 weeks shes become distant and really cold. Ive not rubbed anything in I've been so sensitive not to.

Is there anybody who can help me save this friendship. Is there something I can say or do? I feel almost like I want to stop ttc. Please give me something!

**Edit... i wont reply in the comments but I will read yours and do appreciate them!! Baby Dust to all!