Ugh confusion.

Amber Louise

So I found out about two years ago that i could squirt, but I've not been able to for awhile I guess. But idk he's worked "down there" for awhile and tried but nothing

But when I feel like I'm getting off my vagina convulses (I think that's the right word). He feels bad about it cause he doesn't think he gets me off.

During sex and sometimes when he fingers me it never happens.

What should I do?