What's the worst thing your partner has done & you've forgiven?

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Please say your age, his age, relationship length and status, when it happened / how long ago, plus how you moved on from it. And do you fully trust him now?

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I am 23 he is 25 been together 3 years 1 child from previous relationship. 
In the first two months of getting together I found out he was still talking to his ex (I class this as cheating) and month later I made a mistake when seeing my ex we kissed!! We both admitted everything and made a promise that if either of us mess up we will walk away. Since then there are no trust issues at all and we are stronger than ever. I don't think he would ever look elsewhere and I would never in my life throw away what we have :)

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I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 20. We've been together 23 months. I don't think I've fully moved on yet.

A lot of things have happened in our relationship. My boyfriend moved in 2 weeks after we started talking on Facebook through a mutual friend. He lived in group homes for most of his life. His  aunt took him in at 18 and was going to kick him out so I thought he could stay with my family instead of being homeless. We were serious from day one but as time professed I noticed a lot of lying. I found he'd called 12 other girls "sexy" or saying "you're hot". One day I went through his phone at night while he was out going to the store and found that he'd asked a girl if she wanted to make out (said through text) he was high as hell. I asked him to stop smoking weed and he did it behind my back 3 times while lying about it. He asked his ex to get back together if we didn't work out and when he moved out for a little while, I saw his post on an app called whisper about wanting someone to come over to watch movies (I wasn't feeling well) and I pretended to be someone else and asked about sex. He said if I wanted to. During that last one I was 20 weeks pregnant. After that one, things changed. It's been 10 months since anything bad has happened and I believe he's a changed man. I'd explain how I know but this is already long enough.

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We're both 17. And he disappeared for a while with two girls who were very depressed. They left everything and everyone, without telling anyone. I thought he killed himself with them. I don't think I'm over it yet. But there's no reason to talk about it with him because he already is angry enough with himself for what he did. We can't change it. So I'm learning how to trust him again. Every time he doesn't text back for a while, my anxiety goes crazy. I worry about if he's disappearing again. It's the worst feeling. I wish it would stop. But it won't. I just need to let time work its magic.

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Ha he's never really done anything that bad. We're both 26, we've been together for 2 years. 6 months ago or so, he went to the bar after work and his phone died and he didn't bother to charge it. So I woke up at 3 am, when he's usually home at 11 pm and he wasn't there and I couldn't get a hold of him. I was kinda freaking out. But he apologized and I got over it, like I said, not really that big of a deal.

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Im 23 his 24 been together for 8 years married for 3 years have 2 kids and he cheated on me a year after we had our first i forgave him but i do not trust him i can see the change in him thoe!

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We're both 25 but he's a few months older than me. We met 7 years ago and we have a five year old daughter. I traveled to USA in 2011 and discovered a year ago that he has another daughter who is the same age like our girl. His uncle told me and I have never been more shocked before. Long story short, we resolve the problem and we'll be getting married in about five months from now.

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Physical fights

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He cheated on me. A few times actually but only once he got with someone. The other times was flirting. It was in July 2016 the first time and the last time was a few months ago. We have been dating for 1 year 3 months or something. Since September 30th 2015. I'm 16 he's 17. We're turning. A year older this year. No I don't fully trust him but I try my hardest because he's who I want. My friends have judged me to the max for forgiving him that many times. But he's changed a lot (:

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I'm 20, he's 25, we've been together for 2 years, and married for 3 months. For the first 6 months of our relationship he was still talking to his ex of 6 years. She came out as a lesbian and broke it off with him 2 years prior to us meeting. He slipped up one night and told me that he only approached me to ask if I would have a threesome with him and her. I was absolutely crushed. He kept talking to her after that. I made it very clear that I would leave him if he continued talking to her. He cut off all contact with her shortly after that. I felt used and unwanted. Everything in me told me to leave him when he told me that, but I'm glad I didn't. We talked it out, which didn't make things a whole lot better, but I eventually got over it for the most part. I had to take into consideration that they were together for a very long time and she hurt him really bad. She put him in a rut and he was at his lowest point. I might've done some similar in that situation, who knows. He says little things about her sometimes and I always tell myself that he chose me, not her. There was no chance of them getting back together, and we both knew that. They share quite a few mutual friends so she comes up in conversation quite often. They haven't talked in over a year now and we can comfortably talk about her when the subject comes up. I make snide remarks about her sometimes and he giggles, which sounds immature and silly, but actually helps. I always say "I hope she falls in a volcano", haha. Overall, the situation SUCKED, but I'm really glad I stuck around. We're expecting a little girl in April. Guess what.. our daughter and his ex will share the same zodiac sign. How ironic!

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Not me but my best friend.
Her 19 him: 23
Together for a year
He got his ex pregnant the same time he got her pregnant. Their children are 2 months apart.
She forgave him and they carried on for a few extra months but by the time her child was 1 she learnt he didn't stop what he was doing and then got another woman pregnant.
She left

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