Am I wrong?

Question

On the 10th I found out that my cousin margo passed away from cancer later that night I went into the ER thinking had a cyst and found out that I'm pregnant with my second child and some friends and family pretty much said that my oldest son who is 2 years old and spoiled is going to be forgotten and I was acused of not being sympathetic/empathetic over the fact that my grandparents are losing family and friends quicker that flies on a sticky strip. Was I in the wrong to announce it? Is it okay for me to be happy about being pregnant?

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I mean I wouldn't of announced it that day. I would of waited. Few days.

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You can be happy. But I would've let your family mourn the death. Especially cuz now that's how they are gonna remember it your announcement. Pregnancy last 9 months, I'm sure there would've been another time you could've found.

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There is nothing wrong with being happy about your blessing. But you probably should have waited.

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No you're not wrong about being happy. To anyone who says you should've waited, you didn't plan this. Things will subside soon, and people in your family will be back to their normal mindsets. Of course they'll be grieving but not like they are now.

I found out I was pregnant (unexpectedly) a month after my sons cancer diagnosis. I was told by many I should've just gotten an abortion, and that it wasn't the right time. And very few were even happy for me. For the longest time, I felt guilty for being happy. But it's too late to be upset and I'm so excited to bring another life into the world.

Am I wrong?

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