On the 10th I found out that my cousin margo passed away from cancer later that night I went into the ER thinking had a cyst and found out that I'm pregnant with my second child and some friends and family pretty much said that my oldest son who is 2 years old and spoiled is going to be forgotten and I was acused of not being sympathetic/empathetic over the fact that my grandparents are losing family and friends quicker that flies on a sticky strip. Was I in the wrong to announce it? Is it okay for me to be happy about being pregnant?