So I'm in the UK so things may be different, BUT people have baby showers just to get stuff? And get mad when people don't get things off there registry? Even the big things like cots and car seats! I've seen loads of posts of people whining they didn't get this and that and just got outfits and blankets! How fucking ungrateful!! Your mature enough to make a baby be mature enough to spend your own money it's your responsibility nobody else's!