When I became pregnant I weight 203 lbs (5'4). I am considered obese, but never felt like I was. Anyways, my boyfriend says I shouldn't worry and enjoy eating whatever I want and that I am supposed to be gaining weight and actually got mad at me bc I was hunting an individual sized lays BBQ chip bag rather then buying The family size. (I have no self control with these chips). He said I shouldn't be dieting and if I want a whole family size bag then I should eat it. But! I didn't want a big bag. Just enough to fit my craving.

The nurse I last spoke with said she was like me and didn't gain anything the first trimester. She said as long as my baby is healthy he is fine and not to focus on weight gain.

I don't want my boyfriend to think I'm dieting while pregnant... I'm not. I pretty much stuff my face. And I know for my size I should only gain 11-20lbs. I guess what I'm getting at is I don't want him to worry about me and my weight, but I also know it's ok I haven't gained anything. I'm only 11 weeks along.

I think I need to lie about my weight until he calms down or avoid the conversation at all costs. My next appointment is January 25th. He's going to ask...