So I'm in my 38th week.  Since the middle of the second trimester I feel like I have to BEG my SO to do anything sexual with me. I'm lucky if I get a genuine kiss anymore and not just a good bye kiss when he leaves for work or good night (if I'm lucky.)  It has me feeling like a disgusting, not sexually appealing cow.  Yes, I've gained 30 pounds, yes I'm about to give birth any day now, I'm also 5'10" and despite my belly you can't even tell I've put extra weight on.  I'm starting to get the feeling that I'm gonna be a bitter bitch when I drop this weight post partum and all of a sudden he's attracted to me again.  He always tells me "I'm tired" or "I have a lot going on."  YOU have a lot going on?!  I'm raising a 7 year old, just went on maternity leave, trying to get an entire house in order, and on top of that, oh wait, I'm in more pain/discomfort than ever before in my life. You go to work.  You come home to dinner made, the house clean, you never have to look for clean clothes, you never have to wash a single dish.  But yes, YOU have so much going on.  Ugh I'm just feeling tired.  Tired of feeling like my needs/wants are minimalized ALWAYS compared to his.  My pains always less, my problems are always smaller, my stress "shouldn't be there."  And on top of that, he can't even make me feel loved/wanted anymore.  I don't know ladies.😞😞