told my dad

So tonight I went and told my dad... my dad is very crazy and is aggressive. He has 0 custody of me and my mom has full. Well back story is I have a boyfriend who is long distance. My dads side of the family never really "approved"of the relationship...anyways I'm 16 and I am 13w... my mom knows and gave me the option to move with my boyfriend... I told my dad tonight over text (there's reasons why I told him that way) he calls and proceeds to ask are you kidding me etc. then I couldn't take it anymore so I gave the phone to my mom and she talked to him he was saying every word in the book and threatening that I'm not going to move or go to see my boyfriend ever again. My mom invited him to come over and talk and he was shocked and kept saying his opinion is that I don't move and that I will never go to Florida again... he said mean things about my boyfriend and it really hurt.... wouldn't my mom have full say so in if I move or not?? He has visitation, 0% custody. This is all so hard on me