Sex-life post-pregnancy.

Ok...so I just had my first baby. She is not 2mo and 17 days old. (Nov 2nd). Me and my fiance still havent had sex yet. Im really anxious to get things in the bedroom back up and going now that I am healed and on birth control. However, i did gain about 20lb from my pregnancy and I am breast feeding. I am always wearing my breast pads to prevent leaks. I dont want to have to have our first sexual encounter post-baby with me wearing a sports-bra and breast pads (not a turn-on!). Just interested in hearing some other peoples first sexual encounter post-pregnancy. Was it awkward or did it hurt or what did you do if you were a breastfeeding mom??