let's talk

The nurses told me most women tear during labor you just never hear about it because no one talks about it. But why? Who here went through that? I know I did! I had it bad, 4th degree tear, which is the worst. When I become pregnant again (and believe me after that i can't imagine myself pregnant 😂) I have the option to automatically ask for a c section, which that scares me too! Thankfully everything is good and sex is getting better, still take it slow and I do get nervous. So what's your story?