Throw down in the Hospital

Like not a literal throw down, but I'm pretty sure that's going to happen.

My husbands family is always there. I can just picture them bombarding us after the baby is born in the hospital. And my family is very present in our lives, I just WANT SPACE!

I want my damn selfish loving space!!!!

Why does everyone feel the need to be there after I give birth? Like I understand the WHY, but WHY do they take it so personal that I don't want that?

What is so wrong with everyone waiting a day to come see the baby. I just want my own space. I want to shower. I want to sleep and learn how to breastfeed. Thinking about all of these people rushing in to see baby gets me so overwhelmed. Of course my husband and mother will be there. But when I mention everyone else waiting I get the whole

" oh you sound like your liberal ass cousin" (Wtf Does That Even mean?)

"You can't be selfish, that's their baby too"

" you should be excited they want to see it"

" No they can wait 3 hours after birth but a day is too long"

Any help?!? I just want my god forsaken space. I know I might hurt feelings. But a day?!? I've had cooked this baby for 9 months, and they cannot wait a day more to just let me breath.