Nothing lost

So I realized something today. The man I was involved with left me to be with his baby momma 2 weeks ago. And I felt horrible. You know, all the sadness after a break up. But what did I really lose? A man that chose a woman with emotional issues. She has daddy issues and can't stand to be alone. A man that chose a woman he doesn't trust due to her emotional problems. He chose to be with a woman who only wants him to support her financially because she doesn't like to work. He chose a woman who is weak and needs validation from everyone around her. I lost a man that didn't love me enough to stay. So in reality, I lost nothing.