just need to vent

My only transportation is being destroyed by my husband i have told him he is very disrespectful to a vehicle that was given to me by my grandfather. My oil change is 6thousand miles over due my tires need to be rotated and so i rarely drive the vehicle and now the door fell becausw it hasnt been getting shut all the way so the pins busted and its running rough i cant do anything bout it i am to the point of stripping that right of driving it from him and take it over to my papas so he can look at it this vehicle my grandfather has had for a long time he told me it would mke do until he can help me get a family car for my lil family and all i can do is cry