Would you get an abortion if you knew you & SO wouldn't last?

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Been kinda pressured into getting an abortion and I kinda didn't want to at first but I guess it's what makes the most sense at this point ... We know we will not be together and we don't want to make it work .

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Girl you won't be the first and last single mother. Please don't abort, there is a lot of agencies and benefits you could reach out too. You could do it on your own. It's not the babies fault.

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Everyone deserves a chance to live.

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I'm pro choice. But I'm in a secure place to support a child if I got pregnant and thought we wouldn't work out. But if I wasn't secure with my own home, car, jobs, education then I can't say I wouldn't abort.

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It depends on you. Do you want a child. Do you want to be a single mother. Where are you financially and in life with a career or school. If it works for you and you want s child then why not. 
If you can't financially be able to support a child as a single mother and don't want to take on that responsibility then yea. But laying down with someone knowing the change of getting pregnant is something you should expect.

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Im pro choice and i know if i couldnt afford a child and i wasnt ready id like to know i have that option even if my SO lasted or not.

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Your choice to abort shouldn't be based on the man involved at all. You need to decide based on what you feel is best for you. Being a single mother isn't the end of the world at all. Think your options through and don't feel like you have no choice just because he isn't "the one".

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If you dont want your baby because of a guy, there are plenty of people who could use the gift of a child.

Tbh, I back abortions but getting one just because you and your fella won't work is silly. Single moms hold that shit down just as well as partnered moms.

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I wouldn't do it just because we wouldn't last that's not a reason for me. I'd do what's best for me and what I feel is right and what I want.

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No one should pressure you into a decision. Personally, id be stuck between abortion and keeping.

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No one should pressure you into getting an abortion. There was a survey done that showed that most women who got abortions did it because they were pressured to by their SO, or their parents. Almost all of these women regretted their choice later. Please, please consider putting your baby up for adoption if you and your boyfriend are not together as your pregnancy progresses. You will not regret giving your child the chance to live. I'm not judging you at all because I don't know your situation, but I do feel that since you had sex knowing full well that you might end up pregnant, it is your responsibility to continue with the pregnancy and finish what you started. Your child doesn't deserve to suffer for your choice.

Would you get an abortion if you knew you & SO wouldn't last?

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