I have had it. Nothing I do is good enough for my parents. They claim to be Christian but all they do is judge and dredge up the past. Honestly I think my mom believes I'm going to hell because I had a child out of wedlock. My daughter who is now 21 is the best thing that ever happen to me. And to keep throwing that into my face indirectly is just damn petty childish and stupid. I have no stone to throw cause I'm not perfect but apparently my mom has done no wrong so she has been stoning me for 22 years. I don't go to church but that doesn't mean I don't have a relationship with my God. I don't go because I was forced to go for 18 years. I recently found a church I kinda like and decided to go but was that good enough to get her to put away her judgement ruler...no. Now if I don't go to Sunday school I'm going to hell. To be quiet honest most of my religion teaching came from my preschool and day care.  What I recall of Sunday school, making arts and crafts getting cookies and that's about it. My mom decided to tell me tonight that me and my family will never stand with god because we are not right with the church. She claimed my husband hasn't accepted Christ or my children. I was like wow how the crap do you know?! Have you asked God? Did he tell you we are going to hell?!  No!!!  I was just calling my mom to tell her the name of her newest grand child and she flat out attacked me. I realize when you get closer to your expiration date you feel the need to save everyone but I'm not drowning. My kids and husband have accepted Christ and so have I but honestly that's for us to know and share as we feel needed. I didn't stay quiet but I didn't disrespect her just made sure she knew she was wrong. I still feel betrayed by my mom and that's something I don't need right now cause we are on the outs with my husband's family over a gun issue. It's just the last thing I need. I would