I'm in need of advice.....

So I need relationship advice I can't afford a counselor or anything like that nor can I turn to my family because they are too judgmental and very rude so I'm turning to you wonderful people
I need ways to prevent arguments with my baby's father anything helps
I need help on how to make our relationship better basically what I'm saying is how to have the best but not perfect relationship in the world 
We really love each other and wanna make it work and have been trying but something is keeping us from being together and making it work out and are trying to find and solve the problem 😭 I feel I'm the only one trying here I'm so sorry if i messed up anything I just got done crying my vision is blurred because of my tears plus I have a splitting headache now please don't be rude I need some support right now