Anyone else have a super awesome partner?

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Like they're truly a partner, not a helper. My husband does it all and has ever since day one. Baths, diapers, feeding, crabby episodes, getting up in the middle of the night and bringing me the baby so I can bf. His brother and sil had a baby 2 months before we did and the brother doesn't even know where "she keeps the diapers." Counting my blessings.

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Oh man, my husband...seriously the best dad I could hope for. He's so attentive, and has built his own "routine" for our son. Baby can't sleep without daddy feeding him and putting him down. I pick him up from daycare and he's so happy to see me until daddy gets home. Then I no longer exist. It's amazing to watch him grow as a father and a husband. I had a csection and (super gross)...you knoe those bottles they give you to clean yoursel? He cleaned me. Since day 1, hes gicen it everyrhing he has. I may have still complained and did thr majority or "baby work," he was always there when i needed. he also picks up my slack...laundry, cleaning, you name it. He scrubbed the showers the other day.

He (husband) got a cold today. Holy shit, has the world ended. But thinking over the past year, pregnancy, delivery, baby...I'll give him this one. So thankful for him 😍

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barely

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He took yesterday off to have a daddy daughter day. They went shopping and visited me at work. I've been having a huge decrease in my breastmilk supply since starting work and I've been pumping every  chance I get day and night to boost it. Sometimes he gets up with me at night just to keep me company. He's so good to me and our daughter.

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I have to agree my hubby ROCKS and has since day one. My son was in the NICU and my husband went in every 3 hours to get his updates and stayed on top of everything. My son is almost 5 months now and he is still amazing. He comes in everyday from work and jumps right in. Diapers, baths, playtime, feedings, night feedings....literally anything he needs to help with. I am so blessed and thankful for such a hard working and loving husband ❤

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I have so so much mixed feelings about mine.. he helps me with everything except the baby. He can cook, clean, do the groceries. But the baby is last on his list. Especially at night - never wakes up to change the diaper, soothe her or even bring her to me. 
I assume his problem is that he cannot understand why she is awake, why she is crying. Also he grew up in a family where they did not spend much time together.. basically everyone had his own room, own stuff to do.. 
When she cries too much he becomes grumpy and talks to her like "just stop crying" "ohhh goooosh stop this". I feel so sorry for her - for me it is like he was saying "why I have to take care of you AGAIN". 
Ahhh. Sometimes I feel so alone with this.

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i feel pretty lucky too! a know that in his life me & our son are the most important things in the world  he always puts us first & i feel like he was born to be a dad! he works full time so doesnt do the night feeds but will do everything else! plays  LOTS & can make our baby giggle , bath time, feeds, changes!
isnt too good on the picking out the clothes or doing the beauty regime as i call it , nice massage with baby cream etc but thats fine i enjoy that!
he even purs him to sleep which is the hardest because he fights it & lets me go to sleep early!
I do most of the house chores because well if i didnt it would be a constant- thst washing baskets full- the dish washer needs emptying- the bins need taking out 24/7  so its easier to just do it- bur isnt that just a typical man thing? 
if i prompt him then he will do it bur all n all i thank my lucky stars we have him!

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My partner is a great husband, provider and father. But he lacks initiative when caring for our son. Like I have to ask him to change him, or to change a diaper, to burp him, and really doesn't help with washing bottles. He also likes his sleep at night, I take over since I'm home. But he's a great dad. Always there and committed.

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Yup mine is a huge blessing! Friends are always shocked on how much he does lol love him

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I do! 😊 He does it all! I work 11 hour shifts 3 days a week, and he has our baby girl all day by himself. He does lawn care so this is his Off Season right now, and can be with her. I have no idea what I'm doing with her when he returns to work😕

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Yup, but i picked him for that reason and wouldn't have had my daughter otherwise. Was married for 11 years to my ex husband and knew he would be no help and I had no intention of being basically a single mom. Got divorced, and when dating my current husband I actually wanted to have kids for the first time because I knew I'd have a partner. He does it all, diapers, baths, night time soothing, takes her when she's fussy, plays with her, makes her laugh, even keeps her home from daycare on Thursdays even though we pay for the full week because its his day off. Or, if I'm doing baby duty he will wash, dry, launder, cook, etc. He is such a blessing to me and a wonderful father to our daughter!

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