Losing the life we built

I just need to vent, I'm scared and frustrated and starting to have constant minor anxiety meltdowns. We have both worked hard and given freely of what we had for our entire adult lives, as well as trying to save and plan wisely. A month ago, our bills were paid and we were debating on what to buy and invest for the baby. Now I'm sitting here waiting for my SO's car to get taken and our utilities to get shut off. He lost his job, his ex wife petitioned to keep him from withdrawing his 401k, and no one will hire me because I'm obviously pregnant. They told him he likely won't get unemployment and we won't know either way for six weeks anyway. He's looking for a job but so far the two they want to hire him for don't start until April. We have nothing to sell, no savings, and are desperately struggling to come up with our small mortgage payment so we can have somewhere to live. I'm trying so hard to keep him calm and make sure he doesn't feel worthless and most of all, keep him from relapsing ( he's still going to AA). I just can't wrap my head around this being my situation. We thought we were finally getting things together and stable after a year of losses, accidents, divorce, illness, and trauma. Now we'll be lucky to keep our house to bring the baby home to , let alone have water and lights. I guess I just feel helpless. I wish I could just undo things. I'm so happy to still have each other and the baby, but so scared.