I swear I am cursed lol

So when me and my ex of 7 years first tried to have sex he was too nervous and couldn't get hard so we couldn't have sex for weeks because of his nerves. My latest ex had the same issue the first 3 times we tried to have sex. Now I have been with this new guy for months and he usually gets hard just from touching me. Tonight we finally decide to have sex and he can't get hard so we eventually give up after trying to get him hard for 15 minutes. WHAT THE FUCK?! lol 😣