Update: Asking for sex

I hate the fact that I have to beg my boyfriend to have sex with me. Sometimes I feel like he does it to shut me up about it... Being together 3 years from having sex a lot... to almost never is really frustrating. I'm not sure what to do at this point. He makes me feel insecure and I'm usually pretty confident. 😒😟

Update: I've talked to him about it and he just says that he's "tired"? Like all of the time? I don't feel like I'm good enough to hold his attention. I've debated on leaving but is leaving due to lack of sex and attention good enough? I really don't know at this point.