To Be or Not to Be?

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Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost three years (3 in April). Everything was going great for so long and I can really be myself around him but I don't know if we have that "love" that I want. My sister recently got engaged and watching her and her fiancé is beautiful. The way they look at each other and spend time together is something that I want. They have known each other since they were in seventh grade, but only have been officially together for a year. Is it just the honeymoon phase that him and I have lost?
My boyfriend is a year above me, a sophomore in college, and we went through the major distance last year pretty well. Summer hits and he likes to see his friends along with seeing me which I totally respect. But this past winter break and a little before he seems to put us at equal spots where I want this relationship to take the next step for our future and for us to spend more than a few ours together every few days...
I left for school feeling really good about our relationship, but now that I'm back again I think about if it's meant to be. He is so amazing and such a gentleman, but I don't know if I have the patcience... it's been a month since I saw him and we have most another two months till I see him for spring break. After the week of spring break we won't see each other till may. 
I'm scared and I don't know if I can hold on to this distance and to come home and not see him as much as I want to. I don't like being put to the side and always being the one told "no" or "we can't hang out tonight/today" because he made plans with his friends when he knows my break is two weeks shorter than his and he can see his friends that entire time. 
I love his family and they feel like my own, but I hate being put to the side. My mom see it and she tells me I can't wait forever because some other guy is going to walk up and want to give me his time, but I'm scared he will be a jerk. 
Is it better for him to not be a jerk and not see him a lot or risk it?
I hate talking about personal issues with people I know so no one knows Ive been thinking this. 
Please help.

Answer

Every relationship has a honeymoon phase and it ends at different times . Things get hard and the person you are with doesn't seem so perfect anymore . It's natural . I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we've had moments where we wondered if it's right . But once we communicatd everything to each other we realized we love each other and the little things that make us argue and annoy each other don't matter in the long run . Couples argue and do stupid stuff and after a while don't try to impress each other as much ... it's natural to get comfortable after 3 years ... and just because he hangs out with his friends as much as he hangs with you doesn't mean he doesn't love you as much ... he probably needs that time ... and he probably doesn't even realize he's doing it. I suggest talking to him about how you are feeling and ask him how he feels . Communication is key in every relationship . No ones relationship is as perfect as it seems and no ones relationship is like another's ... so don't compare your relationship to anyone else's relationship . Talk to each other and if it's a huge issue and something you guys can't compromise or get over , it may be time to breakup but after three years it's prettt natural to feel that way .

Answer

If you're even questioning it you need to end it. When he's the one you'll just know

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