I find it really sad when....

I find it really upsetting when women try so hard to get pregnant and don't. It's like a slap in the face or just a feeling of failure. I been trying for 5.5 years and nothing yet. I don't even know where to start with the doctors. I don't have a family doctor so when I go to the walk in, I just get pushed out the door fast. How long have my lady friends been trying??