Okay I've been thinking of Valentine's Day, my boyfriend and I have had a tough year, so many ups and downs, misscarrages, baby momma drama, now we're going into buying a home in the next few months. Since money is tight rn I don't expect him to go all out but I've been able to managesole extra money without him noticing and I was thinking of getting him a promise ring. What are your views on the woman making that move first?