When my SO and I get into an argument, I want to work things out. I'm more of the "I want to work it out type". He's more of the "let me be mad and come around when I feel like it" type. I feel walking away from the issue is unhealthy. It causes negative feelings to creep up. I normally end up feeling neglected and abandoned.. I mainly feel that when people love each other, they should lead with love and work through their differences in a respectful way. He feels staying there and trying to talk things through can potentially be unhealthy and cause people to say things they don't mean so he'd rather walk away and come back later after he's finished thinking. I understand that and I do get people need their time, but when I'm in the moment and he wants to walk away, I just feel it's not right. I get anxiety and feel like hes not taking how I feel into consideration. I also feel out of the loop because I don't know what's going to happen. I also can't stand when he's upset with me and I just want to fix it and make it right. So then something takes over to ask him to stay and work it out. Well today, I know he became extremely frustrated with me and I tried to let him go when I realized I was forcing him to stay. He just stayed even though he had somewhere to be so I wouldn't be upset. But I just feel I didn't really get the desired outcome I wanted. I was hoping we could make up but he just was very standoffish which hurts just as much as him walking away . Are my feelings justified or am I wrong ?