So, when my ex and I had sex, he would always orgasm first. We tried to do it for me first a few times but we just gave up. After he would come, he would just stop having sex with me. My concern is that if he would have kept going for a few of those times, I would have orgasmed. I asked him once if he would want to keep going after he had already pulled out because we did use condoms every time, but he just kinda sat there and didn't really say anything and waited for me to make a choice, which was always just to go ahead and stop because I knew that's what he wanted to do. Has anybody else experienced this?