it's MY birthday, right?

Question

shouldn't my birthday be about what I want to do or where I want to eat? 
so my husband has asked me "babe, where do you want to go for your birthday?" 
so i gave him my 2 choices - and one he didn't say anything about. and to the other choice he said "why do you want to go there, don't you want to go somewhere nicer?" 
the second choice is a little hole in the wall and we went there on of our first dates. i liked it and the margaritas there are delicious! 
he kinda made me not want to go there anymore. and the other place we've been to before, but i kinda wanted to try something different. 
it's just hard to pick some place where he won't say anything about it.. he can be very picky... like dude it's one dinner - suck it up for me... on my birthday!

and i've just been feeling kind of down this week and i can't shake this BLAH feeling. 
every birthday since my 20th birthday has been kind of crappy - like something bad always happens. 
so i guess i'm kinda just waiting for something to happen this year. let's see what 26 brings me..
how do i get out of this funk?

Answer

To me it almost sounded like he thought you'd treat yourself to a nicer place for your birthday, which doesn't seem combative to me. Just remind him people want different things for their birthday and whereas he might want to do something nice for his birthday you want to do something romantic like go to the location of one of your first dates. No big.

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I don't make a big deal about my birthday, so I can't really relate with you. I just want cupcakes from this bakery this year and that's it. Lol.

But if you go where he wants on his birthday and do what he wants, he should return the favor for yours.

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Don't tell him where you going just tell him to follow the gps to the location of your choice... if he don't want to do anything you want to do then do it with out him and add on a spa trip massages facials and mani pedi

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Idk. On my birthday I treat my mum, she did all the work, its only the day I was born so I never understood why people make it a big deal. You could just say to your man we are going to this place, take it or leave it lol. Have a great day x

it's MY birthday, right?

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