family member is pregnant again..

I feel like I've been socked in the gut.. metaphorically not literally.

I just found out one of our family members, who is around my age, just got pregnant with their second. they've only been trying for 2 months. while I am EXTREMELY ABSOLUTELY HAPPY for them.. on the other hand I feel depressed and like a failure. we've been trying for 5 months, which I know is like nothing compared to others. and I'm not meaning to sound jealous or look for pity.. I guess I am just putting my feelings out there to those who would understand. ❤

if any of you could lend me a hand and let me know how you go through these tough times without getting over stressed or without giving up.. I'd appreciate it !