Did I handle this okay?

Ok so a little back story as to the "tossing" the red lined comment is talking about is I posted a video of me gently tossing my puppy into the grass. Now this grass is insanely tall and thick. It's like landing on a pillow (really truely, I landed in it myself) puppy was having a blast. She kept running right back to me wanting a repeat. I'm not stupid, I've raised puppies before, I know animal body language so please do not assume you know better and tell me I shouldn't have been playing with my puppy like that. That is not what this post is about. All and all, We had fun and it was good bonding time, fast forwards a week later I'm still (as in this behavior has been an issue long before our grassy play session) having some trouble with giving her consequences. I finally reached out for help and was met with this...The red line is my husbands grandpa so I'm really really hurt by these comments and I hope I'm handling it okay. What do you think?