does he have the right to be mad?

Question

I didn't take my birth control at 8pm and my bf and I had sex after 8pm around 9:30. We then took a shower. He freaked out when I told him I haven't taken it yet but I will take it after the shower. I got out earlier than he did. He told me I'm not going to spend the night, that I can walk back to my dorm. (It's cold and there's snow here). I texted him this: (in the pictures)

Did he have the right to get mad and send me back to my room? He's a real dick sometimes. I'm pretty sure as long as you take your pill the same day it will work correctly right?

Answer

No, he doesn't. He should be a grown up and educate himself.

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Yeah that's very disrespectful of him. First of all he basically treated you like a child telling you to leave and that shows immaturity. If he's mature enough to have sex then tell him educate himself on how the female body works if he wants to treat you like that. Ugh😒

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I'm sorry, but what an ass. He didn't trust you enough to consider you'd know what you're talking about, and just had sex with you. And you're right, a couple hour difference is no big deal as long as it's not the first week after your period and you haven't missed any other pills. This just boils the shit out of me when I see guys being so ignorant of how the female body works but just can't wait to crawl into one. If he's going to be pissy like that, tell him he can wear a condom, it takes two to tango, you don't have to carry ALL the responsibility. Especially if he's that paranoid.

does he have the right to be mad?

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