sick of feeling stupid

Beth • Happily married 💍 Mumma of two perfect little bubbas, Oliver and Evelyn 🦖🌈
I just need to rant as I feel I might get judged elsewhere and I feel safe here.
I'm 9 weeks and 1 day today and I'm starting to THINK about buying things for baby. Starting to compile a list of baby items that I want to buy when the time is right. Whenever I ask someone's advice on items they tell "wait, it's too early" "it's not safe" "don't bother right now" I just feel stupid about even thinking to buy things.
This is a life and it should be celebrated. 12 weeks doesn't mean everything is smooth sailing.