birth control

I have a one year old and I'm about to have my second in April . Due date April 27th/17 . I'm not planning on having anymore children anytime soon after this one . At least for some years . I'm only 23 and have plenty of time but for now two is more than enough . What are some of the birth controls you ladies use ?. What will you recommend and not recommend . I've tried  depo before . Was on it for 2 years . Gained so much weight so I'm really not trying to do that & ive tried the nexplonion in my arm . It was fine but eventually I started not being able to breath and I was told to take it out . I also tried pills along time ago gained a little weight but I was scared that one day i would forget to take one . I really don't want to get my tubes tied because I'm unsure if I don't ever want to have kids again . I just know I don't want anymore anytime soon after this one . Birth control has always been a tough decision for me because i always get the side affect of weight gain . At least with the ones I've tried .