Pampering your man??

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So I love pampering my husband, in any and every way. It makes me happy to see him relaxed and happy. I've started my maternity leave early, and all this week I've greeted him when he got off of work with homemade dinners followed by pedicures/foot massages. He works hard, why not? But I do have lady friends that are just disgusted with how I treat him! They think he should be doing this for me, whether he works or I work. What do you all think? Anybody else just get joy out of doing this for their man?

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I like doing things for my husband but I do feel it goes both ways.

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It's awesome you pamper him; l love pampering my man too. With us though it goes both ways. His work is more physically demanding so l like to make sure to massage him everynight if l can. My work is more mentally demanding so we talk a lot about it and he massages me as well 😊

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They're worried about the wrong relationship. It's yours and yours alone.

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What? Noooooo. I am not with my SO (on a break) but I used to give him facials, massages, cooked for him EVERY NIGHT... absolutely NOTHING WRONG with pampering your man. I just hope he returns the favor. My SO massaged my feet when I was preggers for one hr every single night for 7 1/2 months.  In other words since we found out we were pregnant

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If your happy doing it then why not? After all when your baby is here you will need him and I'm sure he will step up! It's about team work and doing things for each other so I have no idea why people would think this is wrong.

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I love to make my man feel special & do things for him 😊 He doesn't like back rubs though and I highly doubt he'll let me go anywhere near his feet for my own safety 😂 but I try to find cute things to do for him.

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It's a two way street. I have three kids and a demanding career. I still make sure my husband has his lunch and dinner before leaving for work, homemade. That's my thing. We eat real homemade food around here. I occasionally run his back because he also does a lot of physical work around the house, in addition to HIS full time career. For instance, right now we are renovating the family bathroom. He does electrical, plumbing, tile work, carpentry... the whole shebang. He's amazing. A little pampering is a great thing. But my husband also helps me out a lot with the household chores, he's Ana amazing hands on Dad, and rubs my back too. He spoils me with flowers for any occasion or none at all. I love flowers. He builds me beautiful things like the huge planter for my vegetable garden, or our gorgeous shed in the yard. I dream it up, like my beautiful kitchen, and he makes it happen. He spoils me plenty. It's the least I can do

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I love pampering my husband.  I give him feet massages. Give him manicures & pedicures (sometimes because I'm affraid I'll hurt him) sometimes cook for him now because I'm off to school pretty much all day. I give him back rubs. I've been failing on plucking his eyebrows. But yeah... I just want (and like him) to look good and I like to be the one that takes care of him. There's nothing wrong with it. He also does a lot of things for me ( he spoils me a lot) without me asking. I don't see nothing wrong with wanting to take care of him specially after a long day of work.🙂😊

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I refuse to touch my mans feet but shit if he wants a back rub or dinner I wouldn't say no 😂 he works his butt off for me, why wouldn't I pamper him! Why would friends comment on that??

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I don't touch my husbands feet, but I cook for him and will rub his back/shoulders/head when he comes in. He doesn't usually think to reciprocate but if I ask for a massage or whatever he will happily do it. I like to take care of him and make him feel loved and appreciated.

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