a little help

I have dying to be a mom for at least 10 years now. I will be 35 in June.... still no baby. The problem actually is my husband. He has little to no sperm that contain anything. He refuses to do the donor route or invetro. He says it's a religious thing. But I think he is too embarrassed to say the real reason. ANY WAY is there anything we should be doing or trying? Any hints or Tips we can try?