Husbands and Bachelor Party

My husband is the first to get married among his close knit of friends. Just a note that I am not a crazy controlling wife but he still likes to drink and party with his friends, sometimes I would still go with him. But since TTC I would party less but my husband is the life of the party so his friends always pressured him to go. In his friend's last bachelor party, they all went to Thailand, and we all know what happens in Thailand 😖 My girlfriends said it's better to not know what happened and to trust our husbands but of course us girls have crazy minds of our own and it doesn't help to not know. Long story short, I found out they had strippers etc, and one of the guys hooked up with a girl in Thailand. So currently I'm on a long cycle for FET in March. But one week after my FET, there's another bachelor party for two of his friends in Hong Kong. So it's going to be during my TWW. I trust that he won't like have sex with girls, but I'm scared that I will be stressed out and anxious and jeopardize the FET. I'm pretty sure there will be strippers and all, but it's just driving me crazy to think that my husband is watching naked girls and from all the movies I watched probably get lap dances right? I know it's just for fun but what do you girls feel about this? I don't want to be a party pooper and tell him not to go. I jokingly told his friends that I will be in Hong Kong too during that weekend, and they all think I suck. I just don't want him to be surrounded by boobies (mind you the strippers look like models with boobs in HK) and I'm pretty sure guys are very visual, so those boobs will be engrained in their brains. I told him about my worries and he said I shouldn't be worried. Basically he's still going, because I don't want to be a crazy controlling witch wife and tell him to bail. What would you girls do? And some tips to go through the TWW without being a crazy insecure wife who video call every minute 😖