Please dont judge me and please no rude comments!!

Let me start by saying that I am 30 weeks pregnant and although pregnant women are emotional this started before I got pregnant... my husband is in the military so he is gone out of town most of the time.. my husband also has three cats.. he's had them for 10 years and loves them dearly but they are terrorists!! I cannot handle them anymore at all. They are strictly indoor cats (they would not survive outdoors) they are completely out of control with their behavior and it has gotten worse since we became pregnant. They have gone potty in the house (we have THREE very large litter boxes that we keep constantly clean,they are the kind that have no lids they won't use anything else) they keep tracking litter all over the house including on furniture.( They have cat litter mats by cat boxes and I vacuum at least three times a day), one of them also keeps dragging his ass on the floor ( he's been checked at the vet and has no anal gland issues or otherwise) and dropping poop randomly on the floor. They are all fixed. They rip up the wall (YES THE ACTUAL WALL) door jams,carpet. We had to replace an entire rooms baseboard because one kept peeing in there. I have tried everything I've talked to a vet,I've been strict with them,I've bought them thousands of dollars worth of toys,beds,cats trees anything to help give them an outlet and I engage them with play allllll of the time, reward their good behavior,groom them. They scream throughout the house nonstop for the past 6 months no matter what we do because they want food even after they have just eaten. They are fed very high quality food twice a day. We cannot leave food out for them constantly because they will just eat and eat until they throw up. I've tried a squirt bottle when they are behaving badly but they just look at me like they dont care. They jump up on the counters and even get into cabinets and eat food and track hair into them or litter to where i cannot use any lower cabinets.. They are also not good with kids AT ALL.. hissing,scratching etc..I used to love them and I used to be very patient and I've never felt negatively towards an animal in my life but it's getting worse and worse and I cannot take it anymore and I already know I cannot deal with them and a newborn especially when I am by myself 90% of the time and that is my biggest worry... my husband would get rid of them if i asked him to but i am terrified of 1. how sad he will be (because i love him and never want that) 2. It causing resentment in my marriage, because how could it not?!!?

I'm at my end with the situation and not sure what to do.. if anyone else has been in a situation similar i'd really like to hear the outcome..