No hate please.
I met a guy online three years ago and we reconnected couple months ago. I decided to travel and visit him because that made most sense. I'm flying this Friday but I booked my tickets 6 weeks in advance. I thought it was enough time to talk and rekindle things. Unfortunately he had been super busy with work and we have only spoken a couple times since. We are both adults. I am almost 30 and he is 32. We are both busy professionals who haven't had luck finding a partner. Not yet at least.
I always thought that I looked fine. But my family keeps telling me how fat I am. And it brings me down. I moved to Canada when I was a teenager (over 10 years ago) and they saw me when I was size 2. I am not 19 any more or size 2. I accept that. But everytime they say I am fat, it hurts a little no matter how much I try to brush it off. (Side note: my family still lives in India and I moved by myself)
Lately I've been feeling what if this is why I am still single and what if he doesn't like the way I look. A part of me knows that if a guy goes for my looks, it's not the guy for me, but I'm so tired of trying to figure out why I can't find a guy.
I am just hoping someone can show me some love here and help with my anxiety. P.S. if you have nothing good to say, please don't say it at all. It doesn't help anyone.
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