Valentine's Day disappointment

So yesterday was Valentine's Day and also my 3 year anniversary with my boyfriend and mind you I'm 17 weeks pregnant. 3 days before my boyfriend goes out and buys his self $500 shoes and for our Valentine's/anniversary he just buys me white roses. I'm so hurt. I just feel like he doesn't care he says I'm materialistic and in appreciate but he never thinks of me and I'm getting sick of it am I at the wrong should I just appreciate or am I right that's not cool? Mind you a few days before I complain about his purchase saying we have a baby on the way and he says it's not like I was gonna get u anything to crazy that really hurt and he proves it when he gets me just white roses no card no can't no jewelry. It really hurt to see all these girls getting necklaces purses etc.. what do you think? What would u feel? What would you do?