An old girlfriend contacted my husband on facebook yesterday. (And by old I mean they dated like 17 years ago) He told me about it and even *kinda* told me what she messaged him. I didn't have a problem with it at all, I feel secure...or at least I did. He has his phone, iPad and our home computer all connected so any message notifications come up on all devices. I was using the computer yesterday and a notification came up that he had a message from her, three hours after I assumed they stopped their conversation. They continually chatted for several hours all morning! Nothing too bad I guess, more than he told me for sure and more than I was comfortable with but I let it go. Basically she was sorry for how their relationship ended, blah blah, then she said how much she loved him and still thinks about him often. He responded with how much he cares and appreciates the apology and he was too sympathetic to her feelings that came 17 years too late for my liking! He also kept sending smilie faces and cute crap like that. Whatever, I still blew it off. Today, he adds his cell number to Facebook out of nowhere after having Facebook for several years. Also, while on the computer today, I see he has a text from Facebook for a 'Facebook messenger confirmation code' He has deleted this message. I googled it and I'm only more confused. What is it and why is he getting it? Oh, no further messages with his ex, but I have a bad feeling about this confirmation code and th fact that he added his cell to FB